Pro Women

While I was flipping through photos online, I stumbled across the following quote:

I really like this quote because I think that it is something more people have to believe.  I constantly hear accusations that any woman who is pro women, doesn't like men or totally wants to cut men out of her life.  This isn't true for everyone; just because you want a better world for yourself or for your daughter doesn't mean that you have to cut men out of it.  We must educate men on feminism so that they can better understand what we need and possibly even change their minds on the meaning of being pro women.  If we work together we can change the world for the better.

9 To 5

Last week I discussed the musical Legally Blonde and how the story can be used to inspire young girls everywhere.  This week I want to discuss the movie and the musical 9 To 5.  Whether you go and watch the movie or listen to the cast recording of the hit musical, the message is the same.  You have to stand up and fight for what you want.

The three main female characters take control of the business after capturing their boss because he is a "sexist, egotistical, lying, hypocritical bigot" who threatens to have them arrested for a simple mistake that could have killed him.  Some may say that he had every right to do so because the mistake that was made could have actually killed him, but he is a two-timing low-life who only cares about himself and making money.  He must get what he wants or else everyone will suffer.

The three leads take over the business and it does better than it ever had before.  The business improved so much that the company head came down to see what made efficiency and productivity go up so much.  The three leads give the credit to their boss in order to keep him from changing anything they did because they did put everything in his name after all.

In the end the three leads get exactly what they want along with justice for all the other employees.  All they had to do was stand up for themselves and fight for what they believed in.

I highly recommend watching the movie and listening to the cast recording because both are funny, entertaining and empowering.  Also, never take no for an answer.  Stand up for yourself and what you believe in.  Keep fighting until your voice is heard because you matter.

Legally Blonde

So, for this week's blog I will be plugging the spring musical my college is doing.  My school is doing Legally Blonde for the musical this year and I couldn't be any more excited.  It is such a good show with wonderful messages throughout, especially for girls.

Short synopsis (only some details mentioned; for more information please leave me a comment): The main character of the musical, Elle Woods, must find herself after she is dumped by who she believes is the love of her life.  Elle decides to attend Harvard in order to win this boy back but soon realizes that she does actually love law and helping people.  After she is hit on by one of her professors, she questions whether or not she is actually good at law or even smart.  Luckily, with the help of her friends and her new love, she gains her confidence back and shows everyone she is a force to be reckoned with.

Elle believed that her worth was based on her looks and because she believed this, it was easier for people to judge her on her looks alone.  After a while she realizes that she is more than just a pretty face, she has a brain and is worth a whole lot more than some pretty little thing to be admired.

This confidence is what all young women need.  Girls deserve more than to be viewed as only some object for people to admire and control.  We have brains that are full of opinions and ideas.

Never let anyone tell you that you aren't smart just because you are pretty.  You will be underestimated but you must overcome and persevere in order to show everyone who you truly are.  Take the lead of Elle Woods, but most importantly, never believe anyone that tells you that you are just a pretty face.  Be true to who you are and believe in yourself.  Own your confidence and show the world that you are a force to be reckoned with.

I found this picture online and I thought it was inspiring because for one thing, Wonder Woman is a total bad-ass and not afraid to go after what she wants.  The other reason why I found this inspiring is this comic shows just how awesome all women are.  Like the comic says, we are ALL Wonder Women.  It doesn't matter what you look like or if you are different than everybody else, if you are being yourself then you are unleashing your inner Wonder Woman.  Never stop being you.

Purity Balls

One word.  WHY?!?!?!? WHY DO THESE EXIST?!?!?  For those of you who don't know, Purity Balls are father/daughter dances but with a creepy twist.

Allow me to explain; daughters (mostly starting at ages 6-7) dress in white ballgowns and attend these Purity Balls with their fathers.  The girls then dance ballet around a room full of large wooden crosses and finally, for the main event, promise their VIRGINITY to their FATHERS!  I kid you not, young and adolescent girls promise their fathers that they will abstain from sex until they are married.  Along with this promise, girls give their fathers a little pink box to symbolize their virginity.  (Can it be any more obvious?)

Now fathers, too, get a role in these balls.  Besides getting to hear what every father wants to hear, they too must make a pledge to their daughters.  Fathers must pledge to cover their daughters from anything that might risk the loss of virginity before marriage.  The daughters also receive a gift from their fathers.  This gift is a necklace with a lock and key charm.  The daughter, however, only gets the lock while the father holds on to the key until the day he can give it to his new son-in-law.

So not only does the father basically own his daughter's virginity like property, but his daughter is letting him!  We have basically traveled back in time to when girls were sold for livestock!

But don't worry, it's not like these still go on today, right?  WRONG!  Purity Balls started in 1998 and are still around today.  Also, get this: Purity Balls are FEDERALLY FUNDED!!!  That's right, you can thank the government for these awful, nauseating events that make girls believe that their only worth is their virginity.

Purity Balls should not exist and yet they do.  Why?  Because apparently girls are only worth something if they are virgins and also they apparently can't be trusted enough to stay virgins on their own.

I would like to personally thank my parents for never making me go to one of these.

Finally, Purity Balls: WHY?!?!? Just WHY?!?!?

2 Dope Queens #22

Today I listened to a podcast by 2 Dope Queens.  I listened to the one from November 15, 2016.  The episode was #22 Trying to Work Through the Feels.  The guests were comedians Langston Kerman, Emmy Blotnick and Alingon Mitra.  The podcast is hosted by Phoebe Robinson and Jessica Williams.  These are two incredibly funny women with opinions they are not afraid to share.

The episode I listened to was right after the election so it was very funny to listen to Phoebe and Jessica's opinions on what our nation is now faced with.  All the guests touch upon different topics based on their own experiences as they try to survive everyday life and make a living.  One topic I particularly liked was talked about by Emmy Blotnick.  Emmy mentioned that not all girlfriends want to be taken to superhero movies for a date because they all start to look the same.  That may not be the case for me but I definitely know some people who say the same thing so it was funny to hear some more commentary on the subject.

I definitely recommend listening to this podcast.  Even if you don't subscribe just check out an episode from time to time if you need a good laugh.  I promise you won't be disappointed.

Never Stop Being a Force to Be Reckoned With

Be Confident and Bold

This poster hangs above my desk in my dorm room and it is by far my favorite one.  I'm pretty sure it says it all.